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by MSW Sally B. Watkins

Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man: Learn to Love What's Right Instead of Trying to Fix What's Wrong download ebook
ISBN:
1605501425
ISBN13:
978-1605501420
Author:
MSW Sally B. Watkins
Publisher:
Adams; Original edition (November 18, 2009)
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Pages:
240 pages
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1562 kb
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1183 kb
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Relationships
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Rating:
4.8

FREE shipping on qualifying offers. Many a woman has tossed aside good men trying to find the fantasy prince and happily ever after.

FREE shipping on qualifying offers. What you will discover by reading this book is that the real relationship you are seeking is with yourself. It provides the tools to build an empowered self and a full happy life even with a flawed partner and an imperfect relationship.

What a wonderful thought! This book will help women solve a wide range of problems. I HIGHLY recommend this book for all women, even if you don’t think you nag or are trying to change your partner

What a wonderful thought! This book will help women solve a wide range of problems. The secret is by changing your mindset, not your man. You will experience a decrease in anger and disappointment as you learn to understand yourself more fully. Jan 04, 2010 Crystal rated it it was amazing. I HIGHLY recommend this book for all women, even if you don’t think you nag or are trying to change your partner. The man in your life will truly appreciate it. Actually, I know a few men that could benefit from reading this book.

Many women feel that the way to fix a problem is to confront their man, reveal their feelings, and ask for what they want to change. If you’ve tried this typical tactic, you may have already discovered that in most cases one of two things happened: (1) complaining or criticizing him only made the problem worse, or (2) things improved for a little while and then went back to the way they were before.

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They had a ‘fixed mindset’ and were unable to imagine improving. And I always push my limits. What's wrong in trying? But sometimes, I get fed up. Especially when I do maths. Some of these children said they might cheat in the future; others looked for someone who had done worse than them to boost their self-esteem. 3Professor Dweck believes that there is a problem in education at the moment. For years, children have been praised for their intelligence or talent, but this makes them vulnerable to failure.

A new book highlights a different approach for sports widows: Instead of trying to wean partners off a beloved .

A new book highlights a different approach for sports widows: Instead of trying to wean partners off a beloved game, they shoud get absorbed in their own activities. It's a pragmatic approach to sports widow frustration, which is now the subject of a book, A Matter of Life and Death, Or How to Wean a Man Off Football, being published this month. In it, authors Ronni Ancona and Alistair McGowan - a fellow comic and her ex-boyfriend - write about what happens when she attempts to remove all traces of soccer from his life and get him to take up pastimes the pair can enjoy together.

What you will discover by reading this book is that the real relationship you are seeking is with yourself.  It provides the tools to build an empowered self and a full happy life even with a flawed partner and an imperfect relationship.  Many a woman has tossed aside good men trying to find the fantasy prince and happily ever after, only to end up disapppointed.  Men are not hard wired or socialized for the impossible relationship that romantic novels and movies promise.  All the nagging, complaining, and crying just make it worse.  Even couples counseling can backfire it you enlist the help of a therapist to fix him.  This groundbreaking guide offers specific strategies to find acceptance and contentment with your guy as he is. Uncover your childhood wounding and understand how you might be trying to get your regressed needs met in a romantic relationship. Learn how to challenge your thinking so that your aren't distorting your view of yourself, your man, and your life. By avoiding the inevitable pain and disappointment in relationships and life you may be creating more suffering. You may have to get out of the way with your heavy expectations and beliefs to really get your man. Find out why empathy may be the best gift of yourself you can give him.Rev up your life and reduce the demands on your relationship to be your everything.With quizzes, exercises, and case studies drawn from her own private practice, psychotherapist Sally B. Watkins helps you develop autonomy and inner resources and grow a mature adult self.  You can help your man be more relational, get more of what you want, and become happier.
Reviews:
  • Fenrinos
This book is a great read on your own or a good conversation starter with others. The book regularly pauses to let the reader reflect on how the information applies to their situation. The short stories of peoples relationship journeys are good teaching tools. It allows you to be your own therapist.
  • Hudora
My fiance was one of the "playa" types who wanted sex and who led me on early on in our relationship. I didn't want to stay with someone who didn't want to get married but he never outright told me that he didn't want to marry me. I was a virgin when I met him and I had my mindset to get married in a white dress and I wanted to honor God. But, eventually one day I made love to him. I bought Dr.Phil's Love Smart (I love this book, too. It also helped me), Why do I have to think like man? (response to Steve Harvey's book, it was good but didn't help me) and this book when I felt like my life wasn't really going anywhere and I wondered "why am I not married, yet?" This book helped me to change how I viewed things as well as how I viewed myself, our relationship, and how I enabled him in a lot of wrong things.

The day after valentine's day, I woke up to a beautiful white bouquet of roses with a card with his picture and a love letter and McDonald's breakfast burritos (I LOVE breakfast, especially McDonald's breakfast) and mild sauce packets assembled into a heart on the bed. I was so happy because it was so sweet and beautiful.

On Feb. 18, 2012, while he was at work I started crying because I wondered if he would EVER marry me. So, instead of giving him an ultimatum I decided to write him a heartfelt letter to tell him everything that I felt and how him putting me in the dark about our future is hurting me. He came home and he immediately knew something was wrong, he asked me "What is it?" and I couldn't talk to him and I started getting teary-eyed and I gave him the letter. After he read it I told him I had to know right here and right now when is he getting married to me, I told him I will not wait another 2-3 years wasting my time with him. He told me that he didn't want me to belong to another man so he's just gonna have to marry me and he said that I already knew that but just wanted a confirmation from him and he kissed me. He told his family about our engagement and we're getting married March. 2, 2013... YAY!!!
  • porosh
It did not read smoothly. It was very choppy and broken up. I usually like workbook type of self improvement books, but this one was not very helpful or insightful.
  • Yannara
Great book, ladies its easier to blame him but if we want real change it takes introspection. This book helped me to look inside of myself at what I was doing and why, the message of accetance has improved my relationships (not just with my fiance) and my happiness!! Buy this book if you are serious about improving your life, and not just controlling his. I highly recommend this book.
  • Uyehuguita
Great read! And great advice as well. I related very well to the subjects she brought up, I almost thought she was talking about me half of the time. And the techniques and solutions she suggests are easy to use and realistic as well.
  • Ynneig
I have never written a review before but I really like this book - and need it - I am just starting but know I will need to read it many times for everything to sink in so I can change! It uses many strategies that she talks about but Sally has put it all together! I can't say enough about this book and I have read MANY relationship books! Thanks Sally!
  • Thordigda
Although it appears that this book is geared towards wives, it was enlightening for me as a husband because I was able to target some of the behaviour that often infuriated my wife. This book is without doubt an awesome tool for a couple in any stage of their relationship; after talking to many of my friends, we've come to the finding that we have a lot of the same concerns and issues, all of which Sally has covered in her book. If you're looking to understand the reasons of 'why', this is the book for you. It doesn't take long, but you'll find yourself saying 'aha!' several times.
Excellent book and excellent service!